Just busy as all out.
I hope all are having fantastic holiday celebrations.
Be fun.
Be safe.
Peace and blessings!
Me
I’ve crossed all ends of dating from the high-spirited, ready and willing mailroom boy to the structured, set in his way business owner. From tattooed motorcycle guy to high-end cufflink must-wearer; total introvert to wild party animal.
…and all else between.
Never Mr. Right, but a couple of more so along the Mr. Right Now category -- who later turned out to be Mr. What the Hell Was I Doing.
I’ve always loved the situation that was needed as a break away from, or to add a little spice to, whatever was on my mental plate at that moment.
Since I am hardly ever passive to my environment, I tend to dive in deep to whichever waters I’ve believe fit my mood at the moment.
…but unfortunately I wear contacts and never open my eyes while diving. It’s when some, such as myself come up for air we see in what we have been submerged.
And the survey begins.
I realize it’s important that we understand the difference between loving our situation (or environment) versus loving or caring for the person who happens to be there to provide or assist in setting the tone for our situation of the moment.
While I am the type to rarely give someone a key to my life for long period of time, I tend to leave the door open for several months at a time, if for no other reason, the enjoy the newness.
It’s the situation.
The open doors.
Being exposed to how one lives, enjoys, and thinks.
Exposing others to how I live, enjoy, and think.
...and a whole lot of good s*x while both doors are open.
And when doors are closed, it’s thought that once again a relationship/person has been wrongfully taken to a sad destination - because it seemed to be going somewhere when in all reality the relationship/person was never really surveyed.
It helps one understand they are not quite as shallow as they thought, as so many remain in perfect situations while so few others walk away.
More substance is necessary or maybe the impossible perfection of people.
And while situations can be perfect, people just can’t – and some have so many flaws themselves, they just can’t settle for less than perfection in a relationship/partner.
Situations can be perfect, people can not.
...and not being able to get what we want does not mean we must settle for what’s available.